Thursday, December 29, 2005
My First Vibrator
I had been married for a little over three years and had just separated from my husband all three years of our marriage the whole time I was married my husband and I lived apart literally on separate continents. During the three years we only saw each other twice and it goes without saying that being celibate AND married was a motherf**ka. So by the time I had come to my senses and realized my marriage was not working and to call it quits, the reality of exactly how sexually deprived and frustrated I was came crashing down on me. Believe it or not, although I consented to a transcontinental marriage where I saw my husband every year and a half, I really did love him and so the awareness of just how horny I was along with no immediate prospects came right in the middle of dealing with my grief over getting a divorce. I wasn't in the right space to go and get a fuck partner and another relationship just wasn't happening. Everything was too raw and I was still too vulnerable but it didn't stop the hormones from raging so I realized that it was high time I showed my body some love, especially after all of the denial she had gone through and take care of her needs and buy my first vibrator. Now for those of you who are experienced sex toy aficionados with a nice collection of pleasure objects this may seem no big deal but for me it was huge. I had first tried going to my local "Lotions and Lace" store, but must confess to being a whole lot embarrassed to be in the store in the first place and then overwhelmed at the sheer variety vibrators, dildos and accessories. Some of the toys were downright scary looking and looked to provide more pain and not the pleasurable kind pain either, than pleasure, not to mention expensive. So I left "Lotions and Lace" empty handed and of course still horny. I then decided to do some research and while at work, in between doing research for one of my projects, I surfed the web for vibrators from women friendly sex toy sites. Fortunately I had my own private office and didn’t have to worry about someone glancing at my computer screen while I did my vibrator research. Imagine trying to explain that to your boss. Fortunately, I came across several sites that were very helpful and one in particular, My Pleasure, at www.mypleasure.com was great. The My Pleasure stated that the all woman staff tested all of their products and each review of the product was written from personal experience. I finally settled on a waterproof, grey silicon, battery powered vibrator that had a nifty little indentation that fit right over your clit and could also be inserted if you choose and had a nice knob to stimulate your G-spot. So I placed my order, thank God for the anonymity of the internet because the whole idea of owning a vibrator was kinda scary yet must I admit it was fun being a little bit naughty for a change and with a mixture of excitement and apprehension counted down the days until it came. Finally it arrived at my P.O. Box, in the discreet box just like they promised, because I was riding with my sister at the time I didn't open it until I got home. Me pulling out my new vibe and showing my sister my new toy just wasn't going to happen. When I opened it up I was relieved that it wasn't all that scary looking. I then hunted down some batteries and it was on. Let’s just say that my first vibrator induced orgasm(s) were amazing and took the possibilities of self pleasure to a whole nother level. Needless to say I was more than pleased and very, very satisfied with my purchase. The vibrator literally hit the spot and was exactly what I needed at the time. While my "vibe" as I affectionately call her doesn't replace a nice, warm, male body, it is the perfect alternative and sometimes the preferred option, not to mention oh so dependable, reliable, never gets tired and is ALWAYS hard while providing with me with as many orgasms as I can stand. A truly wonderful thing I tell you. I now agree that a vibrator is essential for every woman and that all women should have access to pleasure on demand. We all have those times when a man is just too much of a hassle, is not available or simply isn't preferred and a trusty vibe just what you need to hit the spot every time. So I end my story a well pleased woman and a quite satisfied one too.
I had been married for a little over three years and had just separated from my husband all three years of our marriage the whole time I was married my husband and I lived apart literally on separate continents. During the three years we only saw each other twice and it goes without saying that being celibate AND married was a motherf**ka. So by the time I had come to my senses and realized my marriage was not working and to call it quits, the reality of exactly how sexually deprived and frustrated I was came crashing down on me. Believe it or not, although I consented to a transcontinental marriage where I saw my husband every year and a half, I really did love him and so the awareness of just how horny I was along with no immediate prospects came right in the middle of dealing with my grief over getting a divorce. I wasn't in the right space to go and get a fuck partner and another relationship just wasn't happening. Everything was too raw and I was still too vulnerable but it didn't stop the hormones from raging so I realized that it was high time I showed my body some love, especially after all of the denial she had gone through and take care of her needs and buy my first vibrator. Now for those of you who are experienced sex toy aficionados with a nice collection of pleasure objects this may seem no big deal but for me it was huge. I had first tried going to my local "Lotions and Lace" store, but must confess to being a whole lot embarrassed to be in the store in the first place and then overwhelmed at the sheer variety vibrators, dildos and accessories. Some of the toys were downright scary looking and looked to provide more pain and not the pleasurable kind pain either, than pleasure, not to mention expensive. So I left "Lotions and Lace" empty handed and of course still horny. I then decided to do some research and while at work, in between doing research for one of my projects, I surfed the web for vibrators from women friendly sex toy sites. Fortunately I had my own private office and didn’t have to worry about someone glancing at my computer screen while I did my vibrator research. Imagine trying to explain that to your boss. Fortunately, I came across several sites that were very helpful and one in particular, My Pleasure, at www.mypleasure.com was great. The My Pleasure stated that the all woman staff tested all of their products and each review of the product was written from personal experience. I finally settled on a waterproof, grey silicon, battery powered vibrator that had a nifty little indentation that fit right over your clit and could also be inserted if you choose and had a nice knob to stimulate your G-spot. So I placed my order, thank God for the anonymity of the internet because the whole idea of owning a vibrator was kinda scary yet must I admit it was fun being a little bit naughty for a change and with a mixture of excitement and apprehension counted down the days until it came. Finally it arrived at my P.O. Box, in the discreet box just like they promised, because I was riding with my sister at the time I didn't open it until I got home. Me pulling out my new vibe and showing my sister my new toy just wasn't going to happen. When I opened it up I was relieved that it wasn't all that scary looking. I then hunted down some batteries and it was on. Let’s just say that my first vibrator induced orgasm(s) were amazing and took the possibilities of self pleasure to a whole nother level. Needless to say I was more than pleased and very, very satisfied with my purchase. The vibrator literally hit the spot and was exactly what I needed at the time. While my "vibe" as I affectionately call her doesn't replace a nice, warm, male body, it is the perfect alternative and sometimes the preferred option, not to mention oh so dependable, reliable, never gets tired and is ALWAYS hard while providing with me with as many orgasms as I can stand. A truly wonderful thing I tell you. I now agree that a vibrator is essential for every woman and that all women should have access to pleasure on demand. We all have those times when a man is just too much of a hassle, is not available or simply isn't preferred and a trusty vibe just what you need to hit the spot every time. So I end my story a well pleased woman and a quite satisfied one too.
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